Introduction
Greetings to in the name of our Lord! We are happy for you that you have found
love for each other and wish to be united in marriage. Hopefully we can be of
help and service to you in the process of preparing for your wedding as well as
afterward Please take
a few moments to look through this booklet. We feel that it is important that
you understand our guidelines for people who are not members of Trinity, as your
reading of these policies and willingness to follow them will aid in making the
most of your wedding day. Wedding
Services Weddings at Trinity are worship services. It is a sacred event
in which we ask for God's blessing upon both of you as you declare your commitment
to each other and begin your married life together. The wedding policies and guidelines
in this booklet are all based on this Lutheran understanding of the Christian
faith. Trinity
uses a Lutheran marriage liturgy for all weddings. We will make every effort to
personalize your wedding within this church's understanding of the Christian faith.
You will also have the chance to work out service order details with one of the
pastors. For example, if you wish the celebration of Holy Communion as a part
of the service, it should be offered to all present. Weddings & public
policies Trinity Lutheran Church Moline, Illinois 309.762.3624 E-mail:
office@trinitylutheranmoline.org
Reserving the Church Building. Please call the church office to
schedule the use of the building for your wedding no less than three months before
your planned wedding date. There are certain dates that we cannot hold weddings,
including the week between Palm Sunday and Easter along with December 23rd through
December 26th. Payment of the reservation fee will confirm your reservation (see
the costs section at the back of the booklet for more information).
Trinity has a modern chapel with a pipe organ for up to 50 people and a sanctuary
with brilliant stained glass windows and a larger pipe organ that can hold up
to 450 people for your wedding. We have a lounge for the bridal party and a place
for the groomsmen to prepare before the service. In addition, Founder's Hall and
our Multi Purpose Room are available for a reception. For
rehearsals, we schedule up to one hour, and ask that all participants show consideration
for others by being on time. The organist or other musicians may also be at the
rehearsal. Their fees will include the rehearsal only if they are present.
We normally schedule three hours for each wedding. We can arrange for additional
time, but we must ask for an additional fee due to added costs to the church.
If you plan to use the church for your reception, you will need to contact the
church office to reserve a hall or room. Preparation for the Wedding
Weddings can be fairly simple or very elaborate at Trinity. We include in this
booklet information on a number of these areas. Please feel free to contact us
regarding any questions or concerns that you may have about your wedding at Trinity. Preparation
for your life together.
Pre-marriage preparation at Trinity includes the expectation that you will both
meet with one of the pastors two or three times for informal counseling sessions.
These sessions are designed to aid in laying the foundation of your life together.
The last session will be dedicated to planning the wedding service. Arranging
for a pastor to officiate.
Please call the pastor that you wish to officiate at your wedding no later than
three months prior to your planned wedding date. We recommend contacting the pastor
as early as feasible to ensure that we can conduct your wedding on your desired
date. The pastor will work with you regarding many aspects of the wedding service.
Clergy from other congregations may participate in weddings at Trinity with one
of our pastors if you desire. Arranging
for music. Trinity's minister of music is responsible for
all music ministries and will play or arrange for an organist for your wedding.
The minister of music can also arrange for additional musicians and vocalists.
We recommend that you coordinate with the minister of music shortly after you
make your reservation. This person will assist you in music selection for the
prelude, during the service, and for the postlude.
It is possible to arrange for another organist or musician, but please note that
this church adheres to national standards in such matters. This means that a fee
is paid to Trinity's organist even if another organist or pianist will play for
the service. If outside groups wish to use our sound system, an audio technician
from Trinity will need to set up the equipment. Please feel free to contact our
minister of music for more information. Arranging
for a Wedding Consultant.
Our wedding consultant will serve in this capacity for all weddings at Trinity.
This person will coordinate many details for you in additional to attending to
many details during the rehearsal and wedding. The consultant will receive information
regarding the wedding and share that information with other staff to ensure that
there are no conflicts over the use of the building.
Music
Policies Since
the marriage service is a worship service, all music needs to be selected with
this in mind. The selection of music should have high standards of quality so
that it may enhance the worship service. All music should reflect the praise of
God befitting a worship service. Your pastor and the minister of Music would be
happy to help you in this selection process.
Any approved music that is not part of Trinity's music library should be given
to the minister of music at least two weeks before the wedding. Flowers
We welcome flowers as a part of the wedding service. If you should retain a florist
to supply flowers, we expect that no tape or pins are used on any of the church
furniture or walls. Decorations on the ends of the pews may be attached with ribbons,
rubber bands, or similar devices. We also do not place flowers directly on the
altar, with the exception of a small arrangement as part of a unity candle.
Your flowers are yours to take with you after the service. Flower boxes should
not be left behind in the church, and you may want to ask a friend to attend to
this item. The
Wedding License
You will need a wedding license in accordance with Illinois State and Rock Island
County laws for your wedding. Licenses from other jurisdictions are not valid.
To obtain the license, contact the County Clerk in the Rock Island County courthouse.
You will need to get the license no later than two weeks before the wedding, so
we suggest that you obtain the license well in advance of your wedding.
We require that the wedding license be brought to the church office no later than
two weeks before the wedding. In special situations this can be done at the rehearsal.
We cannot conduct any wedding without receiving a copy of the marriage license
by the time of the wedding rehearsal. Receptions The
church facility may be reserved for receptions, and you can make these arrangements
with the church office when you reserve the date of your wedding. We have two
locations suitable for your reception, which are Founder's Hall and our Multi
Purpose Room. Alcoholic beverages may not be used on church property. Please note
that there is an additional fee for your use of the room, which varies based on
the time used and the number of rooms used. Please contact out church office for
more information. Photography
Photographs and videos are important records of your wedding day, and we want
you to have these items while at the same time not detracting from the worship
service. These guidelines were formed with both goals in mind.
Photography during the rehearsal, before the service, during the processional,
during the recessional, and after the service is acceptable.
Photography by guests and family during the service is inappropriate. This can
be courteously placed in a wedding bulletin, and it will be announced by the pastor
at the beginning of the service.
A professional photographer may stand in the back ten pews of the church and no
closer to the altar to take flash pictures during the processional and the recessional.
The photographer may use the balcony for photographs. During the service, all
photography must be silent , without flash, and only from the balcony. Please
ensure that your photographer is aware of these policies. The service will pause
until the photographer leaves the building if these guidelines are ignored. Video
photography is acceptable during the ceremony from the balcony. Any other locations
must be cleared in advance of the ceremony and must be stationary during the entire
ceremony. Candles The six candles normally by the altar are
there for your use at the wedding service at no cost to you. We will light them
in advance of the service. If you wish them lit later, you will need to identify
acolytes who will need to be trained beforehand.
Additional candles, provided that they do not block movement during the service,
may be used but are not available from the church. Such additional candles need
to be under some kind of glass, such as hurricane lamp style glass for safety
purposes. You may, in consultation with the pastor, use a unity or wedding candle. Bulletins
You have the option of using printed bulletins that will be given to guests as
they arrive for the wedding. They are an outline of the order of worship and a
memento of your special day. We can, upon request, provide you with a template
of the service for your use in making up your wedding bulletin. Custodial
care. Our custodian will clean the church before and after the wedding.
This person will open the church two hours before the service and lock it afterwards.
Earlier openings require an additional fee. Other
Church use Policies We expect that the bride and the groom will ensure
that all members of the wedding party understand the following policies and honor
them. Failure to do so could result in the loss of your deposit.
No rice, bird seed, or confetti may be used due to safety and ecological concerns.
Removal of such items generally requires picking it up by hand individually.
Smoking is also not permitted in the building for health and sanitary reasons.
No alcoholic beverages may be brought into the building outside of the wine for
Holy Communion. Please note that we strictly adhere to this requirement.
We expect the wedding party to clean up personal belongings before leaving the
church. We will hold on to left personal items such as coats and eyeglasses for
up to two weeks after the ceremony before disposal. Costs
We have sought to make the costs for marriage at Trinity reasonable given
the costs to the church. Our current fee schedule was set up only after making
a comparison with the fees of other similar size local churches. When
you schedule your wedding, we ask for a deposit of $300 to reserve your date and
time. Weddings reserved by e-mail or by phone will be held for 10 days, allowing
time for the deposit to be sent to the church office. This deposit cannot be applied
toward other wedding fees.
The deposit will be refunded to you after the wedding has taken place and after
all wedding fees have been fully processed. All or part of this deposit will not
be returned if there is damage to the property, use of alcohol or drugs, or a
disregard of our policies. If you cancel your wedding less than one week before
the wedding, we may not be able to refund part or all your deposit, depending
on our costs. Fee Schedule
Pastoral honorarium $350. ^
Additional Pastors' Honorarium $200. Organist
$200. (AGO * guidelines apply - rehearsal fee additional $50) Materials
for counseling $35. Custodian
& building security $75. ^
Early opening of the church $20. pr. hour (beyond three hours) Wedding
Coordinator $100. ^ Vocal
Soloist $75. ^ Audio Technician
$100. ^ Instrumentalists
Varies ^ Reception space
Varies Building use $300 Deposit
(refundable afterwards) $300. *
American Guild of organists ^ If required Conclusion
Thank you for considering Trinity Lutheran Church, Moline, for this special day.
If you have any questions or concerns, please ask us about them. May God bless
you as you plan your wedding. Revised
Summer 2007 |